When I reflect on some of the ideas that have recently been filtered into my mind, please be patient. They come from some unrelated fields of research but somehow make sense to me. Then it is up to you to decide what I am saying makes sense to you.
Traditionally, wedding rings have been worn on the so-called ring finger, either on the left hand or in some countries, on the right. This tradition can be traced back to ancient Greece and Egypt thousands of years ago, where people thought that the ring finger vein, called the vein, the vein of love, reached the heart. It was later discovered that there was no such vein, but for centuries, wearing a wedding ring on the ring finger has already had the way to do so, and it remains the same today.
I would like to suggest another way to consider the connection between the fingers and the body organs. Looking at the acupuncture meridians in Chinese medicine, we see that, in fact, the heart meridian is on the little finger! In addition, we see the meridian of the pericardium - the tissue around the heart, seems to hold the heart - on the middle finger. So now we actually have two fingers on each hand that are directly related to the heart. interesting.
When we consider palmography [I warned you that I am mixing unrelated areas], we see no fingers corresponding to the heart, it is actually on the palm of the palm of the hand. But the little finger indicates Mercury and the middle finger Jupiter. ['ring' The finger is the sun, the index finger is Saturn, and the thumb is Uranus.]
So, combining the energy of Mercury and Jupiter, and wearing our wedding rings on these fingers, we can actually make the saying that "you are always in my mind" [Mercury - Mind] and "I am holding you in The highest aspect, self-respect and love "[Jupiter - big event]. So I am happy to decide to use these fingers to represent the best symbols and our best intentions for marriage and marriage partners.
Now let's look at another area of research - energy medicine, which points out that energy flow through the body enters through the left hand and enters through the right hand. [For those of us left-handers, this may change, but maybe not. Left-handers need to try to perceive this to determine if it applies to them.]
Then the question becomes - if I receive energy through my left hand and take energy from the right, how do I deal with which hand wears my wedding ring?
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My logic shows that the energy of love that I get from my partner is what unites us, like the heart of the heart. Therefore, I put a wedding ring on the middle finger of my left hand.
I give my partner the love of the future right hand meridian, or my little finger. This shows that we wear two rings instead of a ring, which means giving and receiving love between two people. The circle of life, the circle of love.
The last piece of the puzzle can be seen in the readings of Edgar Cayce, some of whom say that the energy of gold is "renewing" and that the energy of silver is "continuous". So now I have the final choice - which ring should be silver and which one is gold? This person may be best left to each of you to feel your expectations for marriage.
It is also reminiscent of the Indian tradition, where the armbands of certain religious factions are made of gold, silver and copper [traditional Venus metal, thus expressing love]. All three bands are fused together or intertwined and worn on the upper arm.
see? You have a lot of good choices about how to express your marriage promise! Fingers between you two back and forth, precious metals and energy flow.
When it comes to getting married, it may be time to redefine the direction of the 21st century tradition. Of course, we know that the proportion of divorce is very high, up to 50% in some areas. What is that?
I believe that the initial lifelong commitment was introduced by ancient religious leaders as a way to prove that only one relationship is important, our relationship with God [through any name we use], and our commitment to one person is The patterns on our planet are imitated, reflecting our loyalty to the principle of unity. [I think this is also a patriarchal move to ensure that women remain loyal, no matter what men do, as history suggests.]
We only see strict adherence to the concept of marriage that is one-person thinking about life in a Western faction. In most other societies and religions, there are loopholes that are easy to obtain divorce or have no lifelong conditions at all. Or there is no monogamy. This fertility-controlled society is known for women's choice of partners and then moves on to the next. [These days sound like the voices of many people, no matter what "voath" is issued.]
The fact remains that in this era, the original intention of demonstrating unity has almost been eliminated. Some people are seeking assurance and stability to support their families and have a stable source of income. Some people may have a romantic message about being together forever. But this rarely allows two people to spend the steep challenges that life often brings.
One thing we can understand is how difficult it is to be together in the first year. Two people lead two different lives together under one roof 24/7. Whether you think this is a test of love or a sign that partnerships don't have, it will determine your performance in the initial stages of this massive adjustment.
Not surprisingly, more and more couples choose to live together to test the power of relationships [and themselves] over time. This reminds me of the ancient Celtic fasting tradition, in which a pastor or sacred person unites a couple in a year and a day. After that, they can decide whether to continue the long-term marriage.
The only thing that makes me sad about the couples who live together these days is that there are no special or even sacred rituals to mark the beginning of a truly important turning point for these two people. live. I am very happy to see the hand-held rituals reintroduced into our Western society, not to commemorate the beginning of what is necessary for religion, but to prove the importance of the love connection that brings together two people. It is one thing for roommates to get together for social and economic reasons; however, the love connection makes me feel that I should declare to the world the speciality that the ceremony can convey.
Then, after a period of living together - whether it is a year or a year - when two people feel longer and more formally promise to summon them, what I really like to see is a kind of monogamy based on not "forever" Commitment, but how long does the relationship mean and lasts.
I mean, we can see again and again that this happens sometimes when the relationship itself "completes" or ends. There are two people together for the purpose. Together, the two constitute the third entity - the relationship itself. Just like everything else in the sun, it has purpose and longevity.
This does not mean that partners are now annoying to each other. This may mean that certain conditions have changed enough to make the relationship itself unsustainable or may no longer be relevant. It may simply mean that any purpose initiated at the beginning of the relationship has been achieved. It may take some time for an individual to realize what it is. Hopefully through useful guidance, they can accept the end and continue their lives, grow, learn and love as much as possible.
When we look back at history and see the conditions in which people live for so many hours, it's easy to understand why the permanence and security of "forever" is so appealing. For those who regard monogamous marriage as a manifestation of a loyalty to God, this sense of commitment is no longer a unity of the husband and wife.
So let our vows become true. Let us admit that things can't last forever because we say what we want at some point in our lives, but things change somewhere. ' Yes, in times of hardship, personal growth and personality and the establishment of security... More and more people seem to be more acceptable.
Honestly treating each other's vows will help us to become more aware and sensitive to the realization of this relationship when it occurs, if it is involved. If you survive, it is glorious. If not, no harm, no fouls. "For everything, there is a season, a time for the various purposes of the world."
The last consideration I want to abandon marriage... The marriage license is a legal document stating that the country in which you live has allowed you to legally marry. Oh, thank you.
We have all heard about the catastrophic story of a terrible divorce - another legal stumbling block. It just makes things very confusing, and this legal aspect may benefit the country in which you live, but it does not necessarily affect the longevity of your relationship. After all, now is not just you and your partner, but you and your partner as well as Virginia. Legally, this is the trio you entered. No thanks.
I hope to see more couples finding out the legal definition of a "common law" marriage. In some countries, it only takes one or two years, while in other countries it lasts for seven years. ...
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