Problem with her
Our first date...
I believe that our first date is one day. He invited me to eat Korean soup after watching the movie, but he said that our first date was the first time we went out to have dinner before we started talking about our feelings. . So, on the first date I think is ours, I am very nervous, I don't know if my fascination is mutual, I try to see if he responded to my "hints" and I tried to leave him a deep impression. My soup is seafood Sundubu This means there is a complete shrimp inside. I often peel it with my hand to eat it, but I am not sure this is the "right" way to eat Korean soup. So, because I didn't want to be "weird", I decided to leave the shrimp and bring it to the dog bag with the leftovers...
In the first few months of the appointment, my trade destroyer will be...
There really are no trade destroyers, we waited a long time to get together, and when we started dating, we knew each one very well. My fascination is so strong that I think the only possible trade destroyer will find him to be a drug addict [haha] or that he has another girl next to me.
I know that he is suitable for me...
We went to find his parents. In order to spend the Thanksgiving Day of 2015, he was driving, his mobile phone was inserted into the car music system, so he asked me to choose some music. When I scrolled music on my phone, I realized that he was a fan of musicals. At that time I felt that I absolutely needed to tell him how I felt [although I was still waiting for him to make the first step]. We gave the rest of the ride music to the Broadway musical. Then, over time, I realized that we just thought in the same way, we had the same life goals, we were very clumsy, we all like the same food [I know this sounds silly but we are all foodies haha ]. Aaron is one of the three people on the planet. I think I am definitely myself [the other two are my mother and my best friend].
When he was... I was shocked by culture.
Mentioned that he considered double eyelid surgery. Before I met him, I didn't even know that this was what men wanted. For me, he is very handsome. Most of the time, when I see photos of men who have undergone surgery, I prefer the "before" photos. Even after a discussion of time and time, I still tried to convince him not to undergo surgery. He likes to make fun of me by making me believe that it will happen soon.
The three things I love him are...
First of all, how much he cares...not just with me, but with people around him. Of course, it may sound mainstream, but Aaron is really the kindest person I know. When I came to Los Angeles and he barely knew me, he was always available to answer all my questions about the school [believe me, there are many], he helped me find a home and let me contact a possible group. I can join UC Los Angeles. Branch school. I was deeply impressed by how much time people I almost didn't know were willing to sacrifice. Later I realized that it wasn't just "I." Aaron was always willing to help and put time into anyone.
Secondly, I like him to be such a good listener. Communication in a long distance relationship is very important, and Aaron knows this. If I say something that I like or dislike, I know he will remember it and take action... even the smallest thing. At the beginning of our relationship, I remember how cute I felt when I arrived at the airport to see him. When I arrived at him six months later, he was waiting for me to use flowers and tea. This is great.
Finally, I like his relaxed personality. I am a control freak, he needs to plan every little thing in my life. He is the exact opposite; he is a man who knows how to enjoy the patience of the present. Since I was with him, I realized that sometimes the most interesting events will eventually become things you have no plans for.
The biggest misunderstanding about his country and culture is...
I can't think of any misunderstanding of any of his three cultures [or just in his American way... like "Americans like guns" haha]. Perhaps some of them are also because of the growth of my best friend is Taiwanese. We are like sisters, spending a lot of days in each other's houses. I was familiar with the way a Taiwanese family worked, and Aaron [although it was a semi-Korean and a half Chinese] was very similar, so I was never surprised.
The best thing he has done for me is...
The first is when he saves all the annual holidays [12 days a year] to Europe and spends two weeks with me. It was a great time when we spent a wonderful time exploring Switzerland together and even went to Malta for a holiday. The second best thing is that he came to Europe from the United States in 2016 to graduate from my bachelor. A very close family member may not have succeeded that day, so it would be unforgettable for Aaron to let me forget my pain and help make this day. I am very happy that he is in all the photos and memories of my graduation.
In this relationship, I learned that my most important thing is...
I can be an awkward girlfriend! I have never experienced this in any of my previous relationships, but for Aaron, I sometimes feel embarrassed, especially when he [Asia] smashed. I think this is because I am different from them. Sometimes I feel that I always lack something compared to them [because I am not Asian].
If there is a suggestion I can give to my Western girlfriends, they are in the AMWF relationship...
Fall in love with this person, not culture, forgetting stereotypes. As far as I know, some girls may specifically look for "Korean men" or "Japanese men" because they are very interested in their culture [because they find them very handsome] but I believe this is the wrong way. Try to understand this person first; if you mean the other, magic will happen, or as we say in Italian, "Se sono rose, fioriranno" [if they are roses, they will bloom]. While knowing someone, don't show that you have an understanding of his culture. There are always things that can learn from each other. He will love to teach you this!
Question about him
Asked her for the first time...
Spontaneous and nerve-racking. When I was at school, the two of us reached a mutual understanding, and it was extremely difficult to pursue intercontinental long-distance relationships. It was probably too difficult and would eventually break us up. However, when we went to a party a few weeks before she left home, I realized that I really liked her, I was very angry, at least not telling her how I feel. I was very nervous when we all decided to take the uncertain steps that were actually in the relationship.
I know she is suitable for me...
I don't think there are two people in the movie who look at each other and know that they are correct when they have a *pow* moment. For me, this is a graduate, but it is unstoppable, like a wave. It started when we met at the meeting and greeted her at school. Over time, I realized how much I liked spending time with her. I can feel comfortable, be myself, we are not too worried about each other's impressions, because we are more and more aware of each other, it just came together. When I really realized this, I was completely engulfed by the waves and knew she was right for me.
When I was... I was shocked by culture.
I met her family to celebrate her college graduation ceremony. Of course, I know clearly that kissing in the French culture, even those you have never seen, kissing on the cheek is the norm. For my growth, I am always taught that when you first greet others, it should be respected, not the personal space of that person. My family will not be emotional because of greetings. We made a lot of handshakes. So when I met her family, everyone pulled me closer and kissed me on the cheek. Everyone greeted me. Needless to say, I was shocked. I didn't even realize that the expression on my face made me very shocked. To be honest, I am still a bit embarrassed.
The three things I like about her are...
There is hardly anything I don't like about her. But because we are looking for the top three; I have to say her sense of humour, kind nature, and her adventurous spirit. For me, one of the most important things about building relationships is with people who are with me. from
I have a very sensible sense of humor. from
Of course, it hasn't changed at all. One of the best things about us is that when we talk about stressful things, we can always take the time to make a joke instead of always taking ourselves seriously. from
The second thing is her kind nature. from
She really tried to understand other points, even if she disagreed. It is very likely that someone really cares about everyone she says and is deeply concerned about everyone in her life. She was very understanding. When she was young, her father opened a new car. She even felt sorry for the old car that was about to leave. from
Finally is her adventurous spirit. from
The luck we can imagine when we travel is the worst, but we always take risks. When I went to see her in the summer, we decided to go to Disneyland Paris. Tickets are very cheap and we think this will be a great experience. Unfortunately for us, the reason why the ticket price is so cheap is that many big-name rides are closed due to the upcoming 25th anniversary of Disneyland Paris...
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