Everyone knows that China is considered a conservative country, but in reality people are people, and it is very likely that they will live their lives in the way they choose, regardless of their society and the surrounding environment. Because of Confucianism, China maintains fairly strict control over its own people; such restrictions are usually self-evident, a unique part of the cultural structure, especially those related to sex.
Of course, lesbians are very disapproving because it doesn't fit the Confucian family structure, so you may want to know how it is in mainland China and whether there are any lesbians.
Are there lesbians in China?
In fact, there are a lot of lesbians in mainland China! I even ventured to say that this ratio actually exceeds the proportion of most Western countries. You may be wondering how I might judge this in a culture that hides my homosexuality. This is a strange thing: Chinese lesbians openly walk down the street, like a couple, holding hands, generally acting Like a lover!
Now you may ask, how is this possible in such a restrictive society? Interestingly, since China has basically closed the Western world for hundreds of years [the last time China opened up to the world was in the Yuan Dynasty], most Chinese natives do not know the appearance or behavior of lesbian couples. Girls holding hands are not considered to be strange at all. Only Westerners believe that Chinese lesbian relationships are obvious!
How Chinese lesbians deceive the public!
To be honest, I am amazed at how some Chinese lesbian couples show off their relationships, and some even kiss in public in some shameful way. I looked around and saw the Chinese see their reaction, absolutely not! Even in a Western country, a lesbian couple will get strange eyebrows and frowning, but not in China. why is it like this?
You might think that they may not be lesbians, and they are just two close friends, and only the eyes that I don't know are what they see. As a lesbian, I should point out that I have lived in China for more than eight years, and I have also treated several lesbians as friends, and even they have confirmed what I have witnessed.
What is amazing is this: because culture is so restricted and closed, Chinese lesbians have actually found a way to hide in the open air.
Is Chinese lesbians just a fashion statement?
The truth is that, as many Chinese lesbians tell me and I have seen, lesbians are a large-scale sport in China, especially from high school to about twenty-four years old. Many high school students do see it as a fashion. This is a problem in China. Most people follow fashion or lifestyle as long as others do so.
Go to any independent market. Outside some women's clothing stores, you will see a cautious sign that says "B.B'".
Many older Chinese do not know the meaning of this sign, but it is a sign that makes women look like a boy's clothing, which is usually the choice of one of the two lesbians. This may sound like an offensive statement to Western female lesbians, degrading their sexuality into a stereotyped fashion statement, but lesbians in China and China themselves are not considered to be so if they I am proud of it.
Where can I see Chinese lesbians?
Gay bars for lesbians are also common, and although most Chinese are asked, you are likely to hear a statement that there are no gay bars in China! They may or may not really believe this, but in either case, most people think that homosexuality is a shameful thing that is not recognized as part of Chinese society. In any case, there are many gay bars in China, each of them is gay, and a city knows where they are by word of mouth.
In fact, because China tends to follow the latest trends, because an intrinsic component of Chinese culture is a collective cultural perspective of learning, it only increases lesbianism. The only question is: What happens after the age of twenty-four, when they want to marry a man and settle down and have a baby [or at least one]? It will be interesting to see what happens in these situations in the future!
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